Remember the reason we celebrate Christmas


December 12, 2024


Remembering the True Spirit of Christmas: Celebrating with Purpose, Not Consumerism

We are in the Christmas season, the air is filled with a sense of excitement and anticipation. Festive lights twinkle on houses, stores are bustling with shoppers, and advertisements encourage us to “buy more” and “save big.” We used to see Black Friday, but now it seems to be ‘Black Month” since all these stores are stating sales earlier and earlier. With the consumer-driven frenzy, it’s easy to forget the deeper meaning behind Christmas—the reason we celebrate in the first place.

Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, a time to reflect on love, joy, and the hope that this event brought to the world. Yet, over time, the holiday has become heavily commercialized, with the focus shifting from spiritual reflection to consumer consumption. It’s important for us to pause and remember why we celebrate Christmas and to make sure that shopping, gifts, and business don’t overshadow the true essence of the season.

The True Meaning of Christmas

Christmas is about God’s love for humanity, expressed through the birth of His son, Jesus Christ. God took on human-form and because Jesus to save us from our sins. Jesus came to bring hope, peace, and salvation to the world, and His arrival marks the beginning of God’s redemptive work on earth. The nativity story—a humble birth in a stable—speaks volumes about the heart of Christmas: simplicity, generosity, and a deep connection to others.

The Christmas story reminds us that Christmas is not about what we have or what we give in material terms, but about love, connection, and gratitude. It’s a time for families to come together, for communities to share joy, and for individuals to reflect on the spiritual gifts they’ve received—peace, grace, and the promise of eternal life.

The Pressure of Consumerism

Yet, as we approach the season, the pressure to shop, spend, and “do more” is louder than ever. Retailers and marketers know that Christmas is a prime time for consumer spending, and they’ve tailored their strategies to appeal to our desire for instant gratification. The average person is bombarded with ads for the “latest must-have gadget,” “perfect gift ideas,” and sales that promise to make the holidays even more special.

While there’s nothing wrong with exchanging gifts or enjoying a festive meal with loved ones, it’s important to recognize when the pursuit of material things starts to overshadow the purpose of the holiday. If we’re not careful, Christmas can become less about relationships, love, and spirituality, and more about business transactions, credit card bills, stress, and social comparison. The true spirit of the holiday can easily be drowned out by the noise of advertisements and consumer expectations.

Avoiding the Trap of Commercialism

So, how can we avoid making shopping and business the central focus of our Christmas celebrations?

  1. Shift Your Focus to Giving, Not Getting
    Giving is a beautiful part of the holiday season, but it’s important to remember that true generosity doesn’t always come in the form of expensive gifts. Acts of service, kindness, and time spent together are invaluable gifts that go far beyond the material. Whether it’s volunteering at a food bank, donating to a cause, or simply sharing a meal with those who may not have family nearby, the spirit of Christmas thrives in selflessness and love.
  2. Simplify Your Celebrations
    Instead of feeling pressured to host the perfect party or buy the most extravagant gifts, consider simplifying your celebrations. Create new traditions that focus on togetherness rather than excess. Perhaps you can make homemade gifts, bake cookies together, or gather to read the nativity story aloud. These simple acts help refocus the attention on the love and meaning behind the season, rather than the busyness and commercialism.
  3. Set Boundaries for Holiday Shopping
    It’s easy to get caught up in the race for the “perfect gift” or to feel the need to buy something for everyone. Setting clear boundaries around your budget, your time, and your emotional energy can help prevent the holiday season from becoming overwhelming. Create a plan for how much you want to spend, and stick to it. This not only helps reduce stress, but it also prevents overspending, which can leave you feeling drained and disillusioned once the holiday is over.
  4. Reflect on the Deeper Meaning
    Take time throughout the holiday season to reflect on the deeper meaning of Christmas. Attend a church service, meditate on the birth of Christ, and share the story of Jesus’ birth with others. The Christmas season offers a unique opportunity for spiritual reflection, and keeping the focus on the true message of hope and salvation will help keep things in perspective.
  5. Practice Gratitude
    Gratitude is a powerful way to connect with the true spirit of Christmas. Take time to appreciate what you have, whether it’s your health, family, or the beauty of the world around you. Practicing gratitude helps you shift away from the mindset of “more is better” and refocus on the blessings that are already present in your life.

The Joy of a Christ-Centered Christmas

When we take the time to remember the true meaning of Christmas, the holiday becomes something far more profound than a season of shopping, business, and pleasures. Anything that takes us away from God is an idol. All the ‘business’ of Christmas can be an idol if you don’t realize why we truly celebrate Christmas. The Christmas season is a time of spiritual renewal, an opportunity to reflect on the ultimate gift that was given to us in the form of Jesus Christ.

Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ, God’s gift of love to the world. The Bible teaches that Jesus came to bring salvation and hope to all people. In the Gospel of Matthew, the angel tells Joseph: “She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins” (Matthew 1:21). This highlights the purpose of Jesus’ coming—to redeem humanity.

In the Gospel of Luke, the angels proclaim to the shepherds: “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord” (Luke 2:10-11). Jesus’ birth was the fulfillment of God’s promise of a Savior, bringing peace and joy to the world.

John 3:16 reminds us that Jesus’ birth is an expression of God’s immense love: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

We celebrate Christmas to remember and honor the miraculous gift of Jesus, who came to bring peace, love, and eternal life to all who believe in Him. Let’s make a conscious decision to embrace the deeper meaning of the season. Let’s put relationships, love, and gratitude at the center of our celebrations and resist the temptation to make consumerism the focal point. By doing so, we can experience a more joyful, peaceful, and meaningful Christmas—one that reflects the true spirit of the holiday.

Challenge Questions

I strive to encourage my readers to reflect on my writings and consider how they can apply the ideas to their own lives.

  1. How can you shift your focus this Christmas from the commercialized aspects of the holiday to the true meaning of Jesus’ birth and His purpose in your life?
  2. In what ways can you share the love and hope of Christ with others this season, especially those who may be struggling or feel disconnected from the joy of Christmas?
  3. What does it mean to you personally that Jesus came to “save His people from their sins” (Matthew 1:21)? How does this understanding impact the way you celebrate Christmas?

Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,
As we celebrate the birth of Your Son, Jesus, we thank You for the immeasurable gift of love and salvation He brought into the world. Help us to focus on the true meaning of Christmas, remembering that it is not about what we receive, but about the hope, peace, and joy found in Christ. May His light guide our hearts and our actions, and may we share His love with others throughout this season. Forgive us when we get distracted by the busyness of life, and refocus our hearts on Your grace and mercy. Thank You for the gift of Jesus and for the eternal life we have through Him. In His precious name, we pray.
Amen.